Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Women, Priesthood and the Individual

Don't you hate when blogs all of the sudden drop off of the face of the earth? Not that mine is super good, so I am sure it wasn't missed too badly. But still I apologize for the mass posts and then a three month hiatus. I hate excuses, but allow me to explain why this occurred. First, I put off my Book of Mormon project posting for too long and that is why there were so many posts at once. Then came spring term. This phenomenon at BYU is a half semester where you can take half the credits, sit through two hour classes and do the whole thing in super speed. I had 6 credits planned (equivalent of 12 credits in a normal semester). Then I listened to Quentin L Cook's conference talk on family history and I decided to get my butt in gear by taking a family history course. This brought me to 8 credits (equivalent of 16, the heaviest BYU load I have ever taken...or will take). This occurred after I had picked up a second job as a track coach for the city of Provo. 
Yup. Two jobs and a heavy course load. Oh, and each of my classes required extensive out of classroom projects that asked about 10-15 hours outside of class doing something having to do with experiential learning. 
Not that I am excused from working on my testimony and sharing it with others, but does this help explain why I disappeared?
BUT now that is all over, I am down to only one job and no school. So I now have time to share my thoughts again. You can choose whether or not to celebrate it by reading the rest of what I have to say. I have chosen to celebrate by talking about a charged subject in which has caused some major controversy within the church: Women wanting to be ordained to the priesthood.

Before I start I want to say my point in sharing is not to change someone or their opinion. I do not have the power to take away someone's choices to take a certain opinion, and I don't really want to have that power or pretend that I have it. I do not want to argue. If we are arguing, we can no longer feel the spirit and be guided to the truth. My point is to give people something to think about when considering the question. But I really just want people, man or woman, to carefully consider the gospel, the church, and their own personal stance. And to pray to be guided through the whole process.

I first want to start off by giving background to anyone who is not a member of this church and might not understand why this is such a problem. In the Old Testament there are records of the prophets who have the mantle of the Holy Priesthood. The priesthood is the authority that leaders have received from God to act in his name. It is the power to make binding promises and to undo binding promises. Noah passed his mantle to one of his sons, it passed to Abraham and so on. The heads of families received the priesthood, having the power to lead their families and ensure their righteousness. The book, True to the Faith, which explains principles and doctrine of the church, states, "The exercise of priesthood authority in the Church is governed by those who hold priesthood keys. Those who hold priesthood keys have the right to preside over and direct the Church within a jurisdiction" (page 126). Through inspiration from the Lord, the patriarch of the family in Old Testament times would use the priesthood to lead their families. In the New Testament when Christ was on the Earth, he brought the priesthood to Peter, James and John on the Mount of Transfiguration. Matthew 17:1-13 tells the story of Moses and Elias coming and the men were transfigured so that they could withstand their presence. When they could they received the priesthood. This gave them the authority to direct the church when Christ left. After the apostles were killed, we believe the authority was taken from the Earth, and was restored to Joseph Smith. Since then it has been passed down to direct the church and to perform acts on behalf of the Lord. At first the authority was given to select men throughout the early history of the church. In 1978 Spencer W Kimball, the Prophet and leader of the Church at the time, had a revelation to make it available to all worthy men of the church. The authority of the priesthood has not ever been extended to women. Although I am sure that this isn't the first time the question has been raised, but in the past couple of years a movement was started to attempt to bring attention to women feeling as though they are left out of important roles in the church because we do not receive the priesthood authority.

I can understand why the movement got started. There is a lot of history of women being oppressed in the past. Women have had to fight for every right that they have in the US. We had to fight for the right to vote. We had to step up and work when the men were off at war. Some even fought in the war, doing more than just being a war nurse.
In the time since women have done amazing things, clawing their way to the top. Women are becoming power holding vice presidents of large companies, senators, Supreme Court justices,  and are running for president of the US. It has become normal to go to a female doctor, to have a female lawyer or female state governor. All of these things were almost unheard of 30 years ago. Awareness of the need for female equality has made women a huge apart of the decision making in many important choices in recent history.
Even in ancient history women have been apart of important events. In Judges 4 there is the story of Deborah, a prophetess and a judge in Israel. She and Barak had to work together to save Israel.
So if all of this progress has been made in the world for the equality of women, why is it that women have not received the priesthood? The LDS church is all about love and inclusion. Wouldn't extending the priesthood to all worthy members help to do that? Women could be even more apart of the decision making and leadership roles in the church.

To begin to understand the answer to this question, there is a certain principle that must first be understood. The church loves women. Talks like The Moral Force of Women and Forget Me Not show just how much the leaders of this church care of their women members. Of my interactions with church leadership I have never been treated with anything but the utmost respect. Some of my interactions have included those who are in constant contact with General Authorities of the church. I realize this doesn't prove much, but I want this to be the foundation of what I want to say.

Okay let's now talk about the differences between men and women, as well as the differences between individuals. I don't think I need to go into graphic details when I say that men and women are built differently. That is just a fact. And there is good reason behind it. It takes differences to work together and make a partnership. If everyone was a cookie cutter, then it would be difficult to accomplish hard tasks because there wouldn't be different perspectives taken. Being built differently is not a disadvantage to any one sex. How our bodies are anatomically designed is to give each person the best advantage to fulfilling their divine mission given to them by our Heavenly Father. It doesn't make one sex better than the other, but it is to assist them in partnering together to create a family and work together in fulfilling the Lord's laws. If you have any question about this, I highly recommend taking an anatomy class with the perspective of learning about God's greatest creations. (Side note: I didn't take anatomy at BYU, but I still felt the spirit everyday testifying that we were created with a divine plan to help us achieve our work here on Earth).

Let's talk about how these differences are relevant to this topic. I am a female working in a male dominated field, as a personal trainer. I work very hard in the gym to work on my strength, and I am quite proud of what I have accomplished. I have moved into and out of an apartment completely by myself, lifting very heavy loads. I lift more weight than some men in the gym. But when I am married and I need a box moved I am most likely going to ask my husband. Not because I don't have the capability to do it myself, but my arms are probably going to be full comforting the kid that just tripped over it. It won't be my role to comfort the kid and my husband's role to move the box. But because I have been born with a blessed gift to give comfort through holding a child close to me, I will act in the best strength suited to the partnership between me and my husband. And because I have been blessed to be a woman, it will most likely be that I will be the one comforting the child, while my husband fixes the problem. Take the woman out of it. Through my experiences with my nieces and nephews and other children, I have seen that I have a talent to comfort, entertain, and teach children. I plan to use this talent to bless my future family more than my talent to build strength because that is what will be needed of me. Individual, unique talents are what blesses lives and families, and should be exercised with the intent to do just that.

Often in this debate The Proclamation on the Family is quoted. I hope that my interpretation can give a different view on this matter.
"By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers obligated to help one another as equal partners."
Put aside the cultural defined gender role here for a second. I see this statement as pointing out individual strengths and talents that exist in Heavenly Father's divine creations. He planned differences, and I see this as inspired words from those who are in constant close communication pointing out those differences. Look at the individual. I am very different than you are. Your talents were given to you to help bless lives in the way that only you can do. I have my talents for the the same reason. The leaders of this church are saying this exact thing. Men are blessed with the ability to know how to protect and provide for his family because in Heavenly Father's Plan of Happiness he knew that this would be the best way that they can bless their family. Women are blessed with the sacred responsibility of carrying a child, then being able to nurture them for the same exact reason. Each family is different in how this is executed, but you cannot deny these are the talents given.

Ok so why is this so important for the debate? Can't women help nurture their children by giving their children priesthood blessings right away? I will not deny that I have received major comfort in receiving blessings. That has been through the spirit being administered to me, giving me the peace of Christ. However, priesthood is administration. True to the Faith states that it is "the eternal power and authority of God." That through "priesthood God creates and governs the heavens and the earth."

So now we're back to oppression and men only administration, or some view it as such. D&C 131:1-4 states that in order for men to reach exaltation they have to enter into the new order of priesthood, being eternally sealed to a spouse. So men need women in order to be in the fullest order of the priesthood. This isn't an oppression, but a way to strengthen the partnership between man and woman in marriage.
D&C 121:36-37 states:
"That the rights of the priesthood are inseparably connected with the powers of heaven, and that they powers of heaven cannot be controlled nor handled only upon the principles of righteousness. That they may be conferred upon us, it is true; but when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain ambition, or to exercise control or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness, behold, the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn. Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man."
If women are being oppressed through priesthood, then it is being used unrighteously and they have lost the spirit. I feel utter sadness for both people involved.
This scripture shows another thing though. Every conference (general, stake, ward), members sustain the leadership of the Church as prophets, seers, and revelators. In order to get a temple recommend you have to say that you sustain Thomas S. Monson as the prophet and leader of this church. That means members truly believe that he has the power of heaven. He is the only one with authorized keys to lead this church. This scripture states that in order for him to lead this church, he can only do so under the principles of righteousness. If he exercises dominion (oppression being a classic example), then he would lose those keys. And many scriptures and conference talks say that if he was leading the church astray, the Lord would remove him. I believe with every ounce of my being that Thomas S. Monson is the Lord's true and living prophet on the Earth today. I have searched for the answer for myself and I cannot deny it.

Now that oppression has been addressed, let's talk about the men only thing.
First, the priesthood gives men opportunities to serve others, God and themselves in ways that would not come to them otherwise. My first winter break in college, I went out with a friend who did not grow up with a worthy priesthood holder in his home. I became very sick and we had to come home early. My mom and I both knew that I needed a priesthood blessing, it wasn't the first time this problem surfaced. My dad was at work, so we had to call their home teacher, who happened to be with the bishop. They left their families and came to our house at 11:30 at night, on New Year's Eve. This experience served three fold. One, I was able to recover better than I otherwise would have. Two, my friend got to see worthy men drop everything to help someone in need. Three, they were able to serve me, and receive the blessings of it. It would not have had the same effect if my mom were able to just do it.
Along those same lines, it allows men to develop talents that they would not otherwise develop. My father was not really one to be affectionate with his kids. I have always known my dad to be very loving and caring, but he is not the touchy feely type. The only comfort I have received from my father was through priesthood blessings. His blessings has helped me through difficult trials that arose in our family, and not fear moving 800 miles away to go to a school where I barely knew 5 people. My father's worthy exercising of the priesthood has allowed me to see a whole new side of him that would not have come if my mom was the holder in the family. I have gained a whole new love for my father because of these experiences. He is not the only one. I have seen men step up and ensure welfare of people they would not have otherwise gotten to know because of their priesthood responsibilities. Women reach out and care for others without the priesthood. I have seen it inside and outside of the church. Priesthood responsibilities have helped men to discover, develop and exercise new talents that women already naturally have.
Third, women are not left out of administration of the church. I have seen my mother serve in many leadership positions, including Young Women's president of a struggling group of girls, and Relief Society President in a very needy ward. For those who know how the church works, both of those jobs require a lot of work and leadership. My mom has gotten up as early as 5:30 in the morning to go to administration meetings and participate in making sure the ward ran smoothly and all of the members were being taken care of. Women's perspectives are taken very seriously in church administration. However, men have a talent in protecting. Who get's the most flack in the church? The Prophet, or the General Relief Society President? The men filling the large and heavy leadership roles prevent women from being dragged through the mud like the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve do every day. It is not for the glory of being the leader, it is to prevent good honorable women from being denigrated by petulant people. The church loves women and want them to be cared for. This is one way this is administered. The General Relief Society, Young Women and Primary Presidents input are listened to and well received. They meet regularly with the presiding councils of the church. But their reputations are not the ones attempted to be destroyed. Because they are being looked after by the leading men of this church.

One more personal experience to bring this full circle. As I mentioned before I have seen my mother in leadership callings inside of the church. My mother has a wonderful talent for taking assignments and following through until they are over. She can see the good in each individual and can see how to best help them. If she can't do either of these, she knows exactly who she can turn to for help in order for tasks to be done, and everyone to be cared for. On the other side, I have mostly seen my dad in supportive callings in the church. He is always the counselor, and when he does have leadership roles, it is still in support of someone over him. He is the most supportive man that I know. He works so hard so that I can go to school. He is always that one to check on my siblings to ensure they are okay. He takes responsibilities given to him and he gives his best to fill them. He supports my mom in each of her difficult callings, and she will attest that the only reason why she does well is because is there for her every step of the way. So my mom is a leader, my dad is a supporter. However, inside of their marriage this changes. Each sets aside personal pride and work together to lead their family. They both fill the talents laid out in the proclamation on the family. My father has a new opportunity to lead and my mom has a new opportunity to support. One is not over the other, but they use their unique talents to bless each other. Because of the distribution, they have gained new talents that they otherwise would not have.
This life is about growth and fulfilling our divine missions given to us by our Heavenly Father. The priesthood is a serious responsibility that is given to men so that they can grow, learn and bless lives in ways they otherwise would not be able to. Women are not denied access to the blessings of the priesthood, married or single. A loving Heavenly Father knows women and knows that they can bless lives without that responsibility. And he wants to ensure they are cared for and protected, because they have a heavy, wonderful responsibility to carry, birth and care for children. So men have been blessed with that chance. Administration in this church is through divine revelation from the Lord. He has a specific purpose for how the church is set up. And I will faithfully serve in every way that I can in the ways that He has set because I know that He sees all. He knows more than I do. Isaiah 55:8-9 states that "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."

I hope that I have brought up things to consider when it comes to this sensitive topic. My last suggestion is to encourage you to ask and find out for yourself. The most quoted verse in the church is James 1:5: "If any man lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him." The Definition of upbraid is to find fault or reproach severely. Don't go into the prayer forcing God to change. Ask, truly wanting to know, why things are the way they are. Then diligently search church materials and I assure you will find an answer.

Here is a good place to start. This comes from a single woman, a former General Relief Society President, and is the first woman to be the executive of Deseret Book (the church's publishing company).

As well as a talk given by Dallin H. Oaks. An apostle of the Lord.
The Keys and Authority of the Priesthood

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Christlike Attributes: Knowledge

Knowledge is the foundation for all other attributes. Struggling with hope? Increase your knowledge of what we have to hope for. Need more patience? Search the scriptures to understand what we have coming to us and why it is worth waiting for. Slipping into old sins? Study the commandments and their importance in our lives. Do you feel pride beginning stand in your way? Turn to the scriptures to see what is bigger than us, and who to give credit to. 
Christ is an example of two major things that are important when it comes to knowledge. 
2 Nephi 21:2, a prophesy from Isaiah about Christ, says: "The spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord."
The knowledge that we gain of the gospel comes through the Spirit of the Lord. However, the knowledge didn't just come to him, and it won't just come to us. He had to search the scriptures, and the Spirit taught him the knowledge that he needed. How else could he quote Isaiah, Malachi and Micah in 3 Nephi? 
The Sons of Mosiah saw an angel and were called to repentance. They still had to search "the scriptures diligently, that they might know the word of God. But this is not all; they had given themselves to much prayer, and fasting" (Alma 17:2-3). 
Search, with prayer and fasting, the scriptures, so that you can wax "strong in the knowledge of the truth" and be of "sound understanding...[of] the word of God." The gospel is not given to us on a silver platter. We get out of the scriptures what we put in to our study. 
The other important side of knowledge is to teach it to others. Christ has a powerful knowledge of the scriptures. He didn't keep it to himself, even though if he did, it would have saved his life. He was bold and shared the word of God. He cared more about what Heavenly Father would have him do, than what his peers would have him do. A lesson that we can learn from.
When Alma opened his mouth he found that "for because of the word which he imparted unto me, behold, many have been born of God, and have tasted as I have tasted, and have seen eye to eye as I have seen; therefore they do know of these things of which I have spoken, as I do know; and the knowledge which I have is of God" (Alma 36:26). 
Our knowledge is not just for us. While there are many blessings that will come to us from the knowledge that we gain, there are many out there that lack the wonderful knowledge that we have. Christ had a mission to establish the true church, with the proper order. We know have the mission to continue spreading that church to every ear. 
We first have to gain knowledge. But once that is complete share it. Study the scriptures diligently, asking for help to understand the word. Then help others to do the same.

Scriptures for further study:
Blessings of having knowledge: 1 Nephi 1:1, 1 Nephi 15:14, 2 Nephi 10:20, 2 Nephi 15:13, 2 Nephi 32:7, Mosiah 2:33, Mosiah 4:5-6,11-12, Mosiah 14:11, Mosiah 18:30, Mosiah 28:2, Alma 9:23, Alma 12:7, Alma 23:15, Alma 24:30, Alma 32:34-35, Alma 47:36, Helaman 6:34, Helaman 14:30, 3 Nephi 1:25, 3 Nephi 5:20, Momon 7:5, Ether 3:19-20, Moroni 7:15-17
How to get knowledge: 1 Nephi 19:5, Mosiah 5:4, Alma 18:34-35, Alma 32:21,26,29, Alma 37:8-10, 3 Nephi 16:4, Mormon 9:36, Ether 4:13
What to do with our knowledge: 2 Nephi 3:12, Mosiah 18:26, Mosiah 23:10, Mosiah 27:36, Alma 17:2-3, Mormon 8:16, Moroni 10:10

Christlike Attributes: Pure

It is pretty obvious that the most pure person to walk the earth is Christ. The sacrificing of a pure lamb at passover was in similitude of Him. It is his sacrifice that allows us to become pure, even as he is. That gift is always there no matter what. So to take advantage of that, remove our sins and imperfections, and become pure is really our responsibility and choice. 
The reason why this is so great is we have an opportunity to return to Heavenly Father. We have the opportunity to have eternal happiness and to not have the guilt of our wrong choices on our minds.
Purity is not to be perfect. It is to do all we can to be righteous and clean. Then to use the atonement of Christ to step in and cleanse us all the way.
Mormon teaches: "O then ye unbelieving, turn ye unto the Lord; cry mightily unto the Father in the name of Jesus, that perhaps ye may be spotless, pure, fair, and white, having been cleansed by the blood of the Lamb, at that last and great day" (Mormon 9:6). 
Likewise, his son Moroni taught: "Pray unto the Father with all energy of heart, that ye may be filled with love...that we may be purified, even as he is pure" (Moroni 7:48). 
The best way to become pure is to turn to Heavenly Father and plead for his help. There are two parts to the atonement. The cleansing power, as well as the enabling power (See "In the Strength of the Lord" by Elder Bednar). Both parts are needed and necessary for our journey to become pure. The cleansing power will help us to remove the impurities of sin, as well as the remove the guilt that we have from our sins. The enabling power will help us to abandon that sin, as well as stay away from other temptations that will come our way. 
Alma 32:42 teaches us that the fruit of the gospel is "pure about all that is pure." The importance behind this is that we will be judged based on our fruits. If we want to put forth good fruit, that is to say have good works and a positive effect on those around us, it is important that we plant the word in our hearts. 
Our actions are fruits of our thoughts and words. If we want to have pure actions, we need to surround ourselves with that which is pure. If we immerse ourselves in the pure word of God, we will see that our intents and actions will become pure as well. 
An example of the Nephites during a time of righteousness can help us to see the importance of being pure. The high priests had this experience:
"Now they, after being sanctified by the Holy Ghost, having their garments be made white, being pure and spotless before God, could not look upon sin save it were with abhorrence; and there were many, exceedingly great many, who were made pure and entered into the rest of the Lord their God." 
This didn't just come to them. They had to have "exceeding faith and repentance," "righteousness before God," choose "to repent and work righteousness rather than perish." Then they "were sanctified, and their garments were washed white through the blood of the Lamb" (Alma 13:10-12).
It takes work to be purified. But it will be so worth it. How often do we think about how we wish there were a cure that would make us resistant to all temptation. This is the cure. Like most treatment of overtaking disease, it will not be easy, but it will be worth it. So fight for it, fight through it, and become pure.

Scriptures for further study:
Why/How to be pure: 2 Nephi 9:14, 47, 2 Nephi 25:16, Jacob 3:1-3, Alma 4:19, Alma 5:19,24, Alma 13:12, Alma 16:21, Alma 32:42, 3 Nephi 12:18, Mormon 9:6, Moroni 7:48

Christlike Attributes: Just

Just is not something that we use very often, but still a relevant attribute to develop. 
The 1828 dictionary defines just in a moral sense as being upright, honest and having principles of rectitude. My favorite definition that I found is "conforming exactly to the laws."
It is more than just obedience. It is exact obedience. Not just doing the bare minimum, but following the commandments to every jot and tittle.
When Alma went on a mission to the Zoramites with his companions because he knew that "the preaching of the word had a tendency to lead the people to do that which is just-yea it had had more powerful effect upon the minds of the people than the sword" (Alma 31:5). 
The reason why we seek for Christlike attributes is because we have a desire to change and become better. Studying the gospel helps us to be able to conform exactly to the laws that Heavenly Father has put in our lives for protection, freedom and to test our obedience. If we do not feel like the laws are there for our benefit, that is when we need to study the commandments in the scriptures.
Nephi said of those that write the scriptures: "The things that he shall write will be just and true" (1 Nephi 14:23). This verse is specific to John's writing in Revelations, however this can be applied to all writings in the scriptures. He goes on to say: "The things which were written were plain and pure, and most precious and easy to understand." This is specifically about the Bible.
While some may not think that the Bible is plain and easy to understand, taking the time to study, ponder and pray about the things written in it will make it more clear. Taking this time will bring the necessary understanding to "lead [you] to do that which is just."
So why should you work on being just? There are a couple of big reasons.
Alma 13:26 teaches us that angels communicate with just and holy men. This can be taken as those who are just and holy will receive important revelations. So if you feel confused, lost, or unsure of what to do, then strive to have exact obedience, be worthy of the spirit, and the answers will come.
Another reason is to have the ability to teach. As members of the church, and decedents of the House of Israel, we have a responsibility to bring the gospel to those who have yet to receive the word, whether or not we wear a missionary badge. In order to be worthy to preach, we need to be just.
This is how teachers were appointed with the people of Alma.
Mosiah 23:17 says "None received the authority to preach or teach except it were by [Alma] from God. Therefore he consecrated all their priests and all their teachers; none were consecrated except they were just men."
It was a requirement to be just in order to be worthy of preaching.
Being just is more than just a word that we skim over in the Book of Mormon while we read it. It is in our dealings with our fellow men, it is in our daily choices whether or not to serve God, and it is in our worthiness to receive revelation.

Scriptures for further study:
Examples of being just: 2 Nephi 1:10, Enos 1:1, Omni 1:25, Mosiah 2:4, Mosiah 19:17, Alma 3:6, Alma 12:15, Alma 20:15, Alma 53:2, Alma 61:19, 3 Nephi 3:12, 3 Nephi 5:18 3 Nephi 26:19, 4 Nephi 1:2
Examples of not being just: 2 Nephi 27:32, 2 Nephi 28:16, Alma 55:1
Why/ How to be just: Mosiah 4:17-19, Alma 41:14, Moroni 10:6

Christlike Attributes: Obedience

While the Savior is a prime example of each of these attributes, I think that his obedience is one of the most amazing. 
Nephi discussed it by saying: "And now, I would ask of you, my beloved brethren, wherein the Lamb of God did fulfill all righteousness in being baptized by water? Know ye that he was holy? But notwithstanding he being holy, he showeth unto the children of men that, according to the flesh he humbleth himself before the Father, and witnesseth the Father that he would be obedient unto him in keeping his commandments" (2 Nephi 31:6-7). 
The only perfect person to walk the earth, who didn't have sins to be washed away, still was baptized because it was a commandment to be baptized. 
Something that can be difficult for us when it comes to obedience is, which spirit do we obey? We have many influences telling us things we should or shouldn't do. 
Moroni 7:15-17 teaches that we are given to know good from evil. We may question where we receive inspiration from, but there is one tried and true way to know what we do and do not follow. That which entices to do good, should be followed. That which entices to do evil should be ignored. 
Which enticings we follow will determine which reward that we follow, happiness or misery (Alma 3:26-27).
Obedience to the gospel is essential to receiving eternal salvation. When we are baptized, we make a covenant to keep the commandments. The return side is to become children of Christ and changed through our faith. Also, we will receive eternal salvation (Mosiah 5:5-8). This makes obedience to the commandments essential. 
However there is a key element in our obedience, and that is the attitude that we have as we obey.
The Book of Mormon has many examples of the different attitudes that we have when we obey.
One attitude comes from Alma 47:2-5. The Lamanite king was obeyed by the majority of the army because "they feared to displease the king." Some disobeyed the king because they "feared to go to battle against the Nephites, lest they should lose their lives." The reason why the Lamanites feared battling the Nephites is because a few years before they made an oath to not come to war against the Nephites, or they would be destroyed (See Alma 44).
They had a choice. Keep their covenant, or follow a wicked king.
Our obedience can be similar. We may have to make difficult choices because we have evil influences trying to get us to follow them. However, we have to choose. Do we follow the evil out of fear? Fear of losing friends, fear of losing respect, fear of losing a job. Or do we obey our covenants to the Lord that we will follow his commandments?
Many situations will arise when we will want to follow our fear. However we should take the attitude of Nephi when he said "I must obey."

Scriptures for further study:
Examples of obedience: 1 Nephi 2:3, 1 Nephi 4:18, 1 Nephi 22:30-31, 2 Nephi 5:31, Jacob 5:72, Enos 7:27, Alma 10:8, Alma 15:5, Alma 57:21
Why we should be obedient: 2 Nephi 1:27, 2 Nephi 7:10, Jacob 2:4, Jacob 4:5-6, Mosiah 29:38, 

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Christlike Attributes: patience

This attribute is one that can be one that is underestimated. What I mean is we don't always understand how this attribute can help us.
 Mosiah 24:15-16 shows us a huge way patience can help us. 
"The Lord did strengthen them that they could bear their burdens with ease, and they did submit with patience to all the will of the Lord. And it came to pass that their faith and their patience was so great that the voice of the Lord came unto them again, saying: Be of good comfort, for on the morrow I will deliver you out of bondage."
Patience is essential to enduring the trials that will inevitably come. The people in this situation were experiencing serious afflictions. The people of Alma were under bondage from the wicked priests of Noah. They would make them work under difficult circumstances and took their ability to practice their religion away. This is a difficult time. 
However, rather than asking "Why me?" or accusing God, they bore these afflictions with patience. They took the afflictions and kept the faith. And because of this, they had an easier time bearing these afflictions, as well as the Lord delivered them in his own timing. 
Alma 32:41-43 teaches us how patience is important in our faith and testimony. 
"But if ye will nourish the word...by your faith with great diligence, and with patience...it shall take root...by and by ye shall pluck the fruit thereof...ye shall reap the rewards of your faith, and your diligence, and patience, and long-suffering, waiting for the tree to bring forth fruit unto you."
If you are patient in growing your faith and testimony, you will receive the benefits of receiving the word and the blessings of exaltation.
Alma not only teaches why patience is important, but he also exemplifies how we can receive it.
On his mission to the Zoramites, he prayed "O Lord, wilt thou grant unto me that I may have strength, that I may suffer with patience these afflictions which shall come upon me, because of the iniquity of this people" (Alma 31:31). 
Alma didn't pray to remove the challenges that were going to come so that he could help the people that he was about to teach as much as he could. He knew that the afflictions were going to come. It doesn't matter who you are or what you are going to do, the afflictions are going to come. So he knew to pray for the patience to bear the afflictions so that he could still give his best on the mission. 
Patience is what is going to help us face the challenges of this life. If we do not have patience, the trials that we face will be more difficult to bear. Praying for and developing patience will be important to enduring to the end.

Scriptures for further study:
Examples of patience: Mosiah 4:6, Mosiah 24:15-16, Alma 9:26, Alma 20:29, Alma 31:31, Alma 60:26
Why patience is important: Mosiah 3:19, Mosiah 23:21, Alma 1:25, Alma 7:23, Alma 13:28-29, Alma 17:11, Alma 34:3,40-41, Alma 38:3-4

Christlike Attributes: Charity

We now return to the regularly scheduled Book of Mormon project.
This post's subject is Charity.
This attribute is probably one of the most important to our development on this earth. Moroni 7:44-48 defines Charity and its importance. 
"Charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things."
This may seem like a laundry list of things to develop in order to have charity and that all of these things are required in order to have charity. However, if we struggle in one aspect, that does not mean that we do not have charity at all. This is not an all or none attribute. 
Verse 47 says that "Charity is the pure love of Christ." A gift that we are all blessed with is the light of Christ. While this is typically associated with the ability to know right from wrong, I think that this is also means we are gifted with the love that Christ has. It can be seen in the person that reaches out to help someone who has fallen, the instant love between a mother and an adopted child, or a stranger willing to allow a busy person go ahead of them in line. We can have even a little bit of charity if we have an urging to reach out to those around us, whether or not we know them.
However, just having an urging to do something for someone else every once in a while is not enough. This is an attribute that we should continually work on to grow and strengthen. 
Last year, I realized that I had a hard time feeling charity for a roommate. I read the verses in Moroni that talked on charity and I panicked. But then I read verses 48:
"Pray unto the Father with all energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he has bestowed upon all true followers of his Son, Jesus Christ...that we may be purified, even as he is pure." 
I thought that I was a true follower of Christ, so I had this gift. But I had problems using this gift. So I decided to pray with all energy of heart for charity for this girl. However, I have a tendency to be distracted easily, so I knew that I needed to have a reminder. So I took a note card and wrote: "Have you prayed for Charity today?" This reminded me in each of my prayers to ask for charity. I found it a lot easier to serve and love this roommate. Comparing that to now, when I do not pray regularly for charity, I know that asking for this help makes a huge difference in caring about those that you are always around. 
Ether 12:36 says that Moroni prayed that the Lord will "bless the Gentiles with grace, that they may have charity." 
This is not an attribute that we can develop on our own. We can't knuckle down and really focus. It doesn't work that way. In order to gain the love of Christ, we have to work with Christ to develop it. It is through his help that we receive it. 
Why is this so important? Amulek says plainly: "If ye do not remember to be charitable, ye are as dross, which the refiners do cast out, (it being of no worth) and is trodden under foot of men" (Alma 34:29). Charity is the essential quality to our service to the Lord. Without it, we are of little worth, because we will not complete our divine mission. If any attribute that we should work hard to develop it is Charity.

Scriptures for further study:
Why we should have Charity: 2 Nephi 26:30, Alma 7:24, Ether 12:28,34-35, Moroni 8:14,16-17
How we should develop it: 2 Nephi 33:7-9, Moroni 10:20-21, Ehter 12:36-37